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Eli's Legacy  
Webster defines "legacy" as "a gift or bequest, something transmitted by or received from an ancestor or predecessor". Although Eli was only with us a short time he did leave some things behind.
 
To my Mother I leave the joy of experiencing pregnancy and childbirth, holding me and seeing me squirm to snuggle closer at the sound of your loving voice.
 
To my Dad I leave the lesson that life is fragile and conception is a miracle. I looked like you, Dad, everyone says so. I left you with a stronger love for and desire to have children. I taught you how much love a heart can really hold by filling yours up with love for me.
 
To my future siblings I leave life. Through the circumstances of my death you can now live. Because of your older brother the doctors now know that Mom needs stitches in her cervix so she can carry you all to full term. Mom and Dad are good and loving parents. Always appreciate them.
 
To my Aunts and Uncles I leave a thank you for all the comfort and loving attention you gave my Mom and Dad after I left. Thank you for the warm blankets and soft toys you gave me to take on the trip.
 
To my Grandparents I leave the reassurance that love and concern for others can build the brigde that heals the hurts of the past. Thank you Gran'ma and Gran'pa Merritt for letting me use one of Dad's old baby blankets. It should keep me real warm just like it kept my Dad warm when he was small.
 
To my Great Grandparents I leave ... a big smile that says "Always remember I love you and so does my new friend, Jesus."
 
See you soon - Elijah Logan Merritt
 

Elijah  
 

Herein lies the legacy of Elijah Logan Merritt. Truly it is a legacy that transcends the ordinary and surpasses the mundane. Moreover, it is overflowing with the intangibles of which our very being exists.

He left his parents with a totally and completely new definition of love. For it is just a glimmering reflection of the unconditional love of God.

To his siblings, though only a thought and dream now, he left a set of parents and extended family full of gratitude. A gratitude and appreciation for life that can only be discovered in loss. They are and will be loved more because of his life.

His legacy is one of compassion. The depth of our loss fuels the vast undiscovered resources of our hearts.  For now we can feel deeper, care deeper and share deeper ties that knit us more closely together as a family. We are more willing to reach out, and we hold each other tighter.

Eli left to us a legacy of courage. Courage that says we can face a new day in spite of the grief. We go on with the vision and hope of being people who make him proud.

His legacy also encompasses the hope that causes us to believe in things grander that this temporal life. Hope that know that eternity exists and heaven is waiting. It is the hope of being with Eli again that gives us strength and peace. Eli came for a short brief moment and left us a legacy that we strive to grasp and in which we find lasting comfort. Knowing that our lives are forever changed for the good because we held him but a moment.



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